Smile, God loves you!
Be happy, be optimistic, be positive!
The Christian community frequently asserts these traits in such a strong manner that I could almost construe them as necessary conditions for salvation.
but what if our lives were different...
I tend to believe that joy and suffering are so intertwined that we cannot have one without the other. Furthermore, to the degree we feel the one, we will certainly feel the other.
Imagine a pendulum swinging. Raise it high on one side, and when you let it go, it will swing equally high on the other.
Now imagine moving it slightly to one side; when released, it will only move slightly to the other side.
I like to think of our range of emotions in this manner - the more I suffer, the more I'll be joyful. The more joy I feel, the more I'll recognize my suffering.
I also like the analogy of seeing our emotions as varying colors on a painter's palette. If I only have a "slightly swinging pendulum" of limited and moderate emotions/colors, a picture could be painted of my life. But imagine a canvas covered in a myriad of intense, vibrant "colors."
With this, my life could be a masterpiece.
to be cont'd...